The difference in the upbringing of boys and girls in the Nigerian society results into power imbalance between the two gender in favour of males. This is a reason that the risk of females facing sexual violence is high.

Sadly, males are socialized to be aggressive, macho, and dominant. They are also trained to be ready and willing to have sex. Men also often get everything they want such as sex, deciding on when to use condom for sex, how many children to have.

Female are socialized, passive, emotional  and submissive to the needs of controlling man, giving to men’s  sexual  power and desires, doing house chores . My question now is “Who has more at stake in a man-woman relationship?”

There is need for us to give boys and girls the same skills and opportunity; and to promote equity and equality so as to breed healthy relationships between genders. This will enable females negotiate their relationship better and contribute to a reduction in sexual violence.