Okay, so what kept coming to mind was the just concluded valentine day celebrated yesterday the 14th of February 2017 The whole idea of it is sweet though, but what I don’t get is why should one wait till Val’s day to show love to the ones you love. Why is there so much importance attached to giving and receiving a gift on this day? If you get a gift you are loved and if you don’t you are what; not loved? I beg to differ. It’s quite saddening to know that a lot of young people make hasty decisions, tend to have confusing emotions and take risks that are not necessary on this day. Young people tend to engage in sexual activities as it is seen as an expression of love, with little or no concerns about the associated risks and consequences. The truth is, love can be shown in a million and one ways, not just through sex. We each have the opportunity to show love to all around us for the rest of our lives.  Adolescents and young ones need to learn to take our time in making decisions with long term consequences. Don’t rush. Make smart and wise decisions.